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What is a Soul Mate?

Imagine life on the other side, before you came to this world. You may be a young soul, or perhaps you are a very wise soul and have lived many lifetimes. You and your spirit guide are working on your lesson plan for your next life. You say to your guide, “this time I really want to learn forgiveness.”

Your soul mate is there with you and they say, “I want to go with you. I will help you with your lesson.”

Later after you were born and came to adulthood, you meet your soul mate. You two fall in love and start a relationship and have three children. Then you find out that your partner has been cheating on you since the day after your wedding day.


Well… you wanted to learn forgiveness. You cannot learn how to forgive until someone has truly hurt you. Our soul mates are not here to live happily ever after with us. Their job is to bust our comfort zones. Because… when we are too comfortable, we don’t grow spiritually.

Many people contact psychics wanting to know if this person or that person is their soul mate. Or, they want to know when they will meet their soul mate, what is their name, what do they look like, and on and on. Some psychics assume that these people are wanting to know about their romantic partners, but other psychics get offended hearing partner and soul mate in the same subject. It is probably best to use straight to the point, plain language when asking a psychic a question, rather than embellishing it with fancy “new age” terminology.

We have many soul mates and we meet them as we travel through our lifetimes. Some will be parents, children, siblings, lovers, friends, and even pets. Some of our soul mates are more casual soul mates. This is the person you meet in the store or on the street, and they say something meaningful in the moment, but we rarely see them again. But… their message will stick with us and probably even explain a situation in our lives. We also have figure heads like teachers and ministers who are here to help guide us through our lessons. And, yes, there are occasionally twin flame type soul mates who actually learn their lessons while in a relationship (like the partner story above). But… we never stop learning spiritually and meeting new soul mates as long as we live. And, after we die, we get to meet back up on the other side, and plan for our next lesson.


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18 thoughts on “What is a Soul Mate?

  • What about karma? According to the scenario mentioned above, a person’s soulmate cheated on them so that the person who got cheated on could learn forgiveness. However, they did hurt the other person intentionally. So, wouldn’t they get bad karma because of cheating on their spouse ?

  • empathmomma says:

    I can say that I myself have not found my twin flame yet and a being a woman in her late thirties it can be a bit discouraging. I do know that I have a life long best friend who is a female but her and I share a bond that is unbreakable. Maybe she’s my soul mate. I still have not found my male counterpart but I think I can learn to accept it. I have my son, my family and friends. You don’t have to be lonely. Romantic relationships can sometimes get complicated. I understand that so many of us get lonely and crave affection and companionship. It’s hard not to. My ex husband cheated on me and then left me for her. I don’t think a soul mate would ever betray you. I believe if your lover is unfaithful, there’s no respect for your feelings. Something I feel your soul mate would not do.

  • The soulmate thing makes alot of sense’ they are here to help us grow spiritually! On the level of the flesh it is inevitable to remind ourselves that we are still animals. Even if we choose to believe the opposite, looking at all species,one thing remains common we the only animals who think you have to be with someone. In a relationship of some sort, strange how that works maybe that leaves us confused.

    • I heard a woman say it so well, “We are not human beings trying to be Spiritual. We are Spiritual beings trying to be human.” Be true to your Self. <3

    • no, Jayo, that is not true, there are many animal species who mate for life, like swans, for example, or some kinds of doves and also mammals

  • This really resonated in my heart. I have felt a strong bond with someone who made me want to step out of my comfort zone in ways I haven’t with anyone else.Perhaps I came across a soul mate!

  • jimdragontech says:

    Sometimes, when one is fortunate the one who is that other part of yourself you’re are not complete without- is both with you as teacher, lover and eternal friend.
    I have been fortunate that way, she ( mine) has taught me to love, believe, and generally accept one does not have to be at war with everyone when You are the alien one.
    If that is the idea of a soulmate, I can, and have lived with that.
    At least she has taught me in this life I don’t actually have to kill all my enemies, just live better than they seem to-spiritually.

  • I have always believed that soul mate had nothing to do with love but I didn’t know what it had to do with. Thanks. I believe we pick our families and friends before we are born. I think I thought I was superwoman when I planned my life path! LOL

  • ok so I believe there is no soulmate ….still havent found him yet was married then dated a guy for 5 years ..still hang out with him( 5 year guy) but deep down i know hes always looking for something better ,i never had a problem with guys asking me out lots of them do but I respect that i am dating someone ,,,, but 5 year guy just excludes me from things like im invisible….example facebook which he calls fackbook he refuses to be friends with me on it and at this point i dont even want to be….people tell me all the inappropiate stuff he puts on and comments …pictures with everyone else never me…..does not even mention my name…..thats just one example and hes always on it 24/7 and no he does not have job indendently wealthy….just need a little guidence what to do….want to see if your opinion is the same as everyone else

    • Fifi, your soul mate is NOT your life partner. Soul mates make life messy and force us to grow. As far as your relationship problems, please submit your question to our site and let all of our talented psychics get a chance to look at it. Thanks!

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