we have been married for 2 yrs and in aug he began to act more distant than ususal and going out all hours of the night he then confessed...
From: G.A., Submitted 12/6/07

Question (continued): ... he then confessed he loved me but no longer was "in" love with me i gave it 2 weeks while he acted like a single man geting home every other night at 3am. i told him i was going to my moms unless he compromised with his outings he just said dont go, i left for two wks but came back when i found out he began to talk to some slut at work who knew he was married he promissed 5 times he would stop but didnt he states he never did anything with her we switched phones so she cant call him and i made her change her number because i was making her life hell and i told her if she changed it i'd leave her alone, she did. is it over like my husband says and will my husband fall back into love with me so we can work things out? i love him so much and so i'm willing to forgive thats why i couldnt walk away i feel it deep inside that he's my soulmate and that i should stick it out am i doing the right thing ?

Answer from Rhonda Reality
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GA, this is a classic example of domestic violence. You may want to check out our radio show Sunday night, Dec 23. Our topic for the night is going to be domestic violence. We will be taking calls and doing live readings.

Domestic violence includes physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. And, lets face it, you've got 2 our of 3, emotional and sexual. Just because he doesn't hit you doesn't mean there isn't abuse. GA, I hope you are using condoms. You don't want an STD (sexually transmitted disease).

Look! My abuser was my soul mate too! Our soul mates are not always positive people. They are here to bust our comfort zones, so we can grow spiritually. My abuser taught me to find my self-esteem when there was no one around to reinforce it. My abuser taught me to see my own abusive behaviors. My abuser taught me to stand up on my own two feet and take care of myself. And, my abuser taught me how to pray! SO, PLEASE CUT THE DAMNED SOUL MATE CRAP!

Please call the domestic violence hot line at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). They will give you the number to a shelter local to you. You don't have to go to shelter to get help. Most of them have 24 hour hot lines with people just waiting to talk to you. Most of them also have meetings you can attend without living in the shelter. And, usually they have some kind of program to help you rebuild your self-esteem.

You were born with your moon in your twelfth house, so you have a tendency to hide your emotions. But, Ms Scorpio, I know you FEEL the pain and the humiliation deep inside. The anger and the fights (with hubby and his girl toy) help to distract you from that deep hurt, but they don't fix it.

I could not calculate your chart to the exact degree, because the city you were born in covers 3 different counties. I punched it up for each of the different counties, and got your chart within 3 degrees. Pluto is going to be crossing your ascendant (rising sign) very soon, and that means powerful transformations.

Its time to boot his ass to the curb, and find out just how beautiful you really are, GA.

Rhonda's dose of reality: There are good men out there. Become a good woman, and you will find them.

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- posted by PsychicBitch @ 12:11 PM