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From: boo, Submitted 12/30/07

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Question (continued): but only because he was told by a psychic that i had done. he has been away for the past month and not purposely i cheated on him again with a friend. and now my bf is bak he has asked me if i have cheated but i have told him i havent. he is now sayin he is going to go see this psychic again to see if im telling the truth. is it possible for some one else to tell if you have cheated or is my bf playin mind games to get things out of me?

Answer:
Honey, how do you “not purposely” cheat? Did this friend accidentally fall on top of you and “somehow” sex “just happened”?! Did demons possess your body?! Aliens, maybe?! Geez, you’re making my eyes cross with this one…

OK, yes a good Psychic can give someone the information they need about their relationship. We do it here at PsychicBitch everyday. You ask if your boyfriend is playing mind games? Hmmmm…maybe he is…that would be rather Karmic, wouldn’t it?

Here’s what needs to happen…he needs to get the hell away from you, if he wants to be happy, and you need to stay out of committed relationships, until you can be faithful and stop lying, and get some therapy while you’re at it!

“I swear…I didn’t cheat on purpose…the neighbors dog made me do it…”

Now get outta here before you get a spider bite.

Abbey ^^O^^

From:Delicate Flower, Submitted 6/4/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Question (complete): Hi Abbey Arachnid I am looking for my cosmic love muffin – twin flame extraordinaire! I want his passion flame to light my fire! Do you see me making this heart and soul connection soon? What can I do make this connection happen? Thanks a bunch, The Delicate One ;oD

Answer:
Hello dear Delicate Flower,

Normally, people have the whole soul mate thing all wrong but it sounds like, to this spider, you have done your study on twin flame souls and what and who they really are. Good for you!

As you know, this type of connection can only take place (and last) on the physical plane if both parties involved are learning their lessons, in touch with and living as who they truly are, completed whatever they have contracted to do with those currently in their life, yada yada yada. I’m not saying ya’ll have to be perfect… far from it! There just has to be some karmic balance on both sides to sustain something of this Spiritual/emotional magnitude. It’s the idea of, rather than learning FROM this person you will learn WITH this person, and that is a whole different ball game than most relationships, right?

Delicate One, feels to me like you’re already “ready” (or at least close), I’m just not sure he is. If the two of you were to come together now, it just wouldn’t be able to last and there is not a bigger buzz-kill than meeting the other half of yourself and then having them walk out of your life. =(

As far as what you can do to make the connection happen, stay on the road you’re on, doll face. You’re doing quite well, the Guides say, so keep it up! Everything you do affects your twin in some way, so you sticking to your path helps him along.

Now the million dollar question…. when? I so wish I had an answer for you, DF. Here’s the closest I can get…. if things continue going the way they are going right now, I can see him begin to take the necessary steps within the next 18-19 months. If he goes off track (which he does easily… by the way, this is an Aquarius or someone with an Aquarian ascendant) it will be longer.

Let me give you this in closing… if it’s not in this lifetime, your Delicateness, try to be ok with that. I’m seeing that A LOT nowadays with so many around me. All it means is the two of you will have to come back one more time (or more, if you choose) to find each other. I promise, if this is the case, it will be worth the wait. In the meantime, really feel your connection to this person and send them love… they’ll feel it.

Wishing you flaming love,
Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are angels in disguise”

From: treay, Submitted 4/27/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Question (continued): via seminars, which I intend promoting via web/multi media. I have a teaching gift and I love public speaking. I wish to use my Psychic knowledge/abilities, but, try as I might, I cannot seem to think of what exactly I should do, or, more pertinently, how I should package what I know. I should very much appreciate your advice. Comical, coming from a reader of 40+ years, isn’t it? But, I think, sometimes, we can’t see the woods for the trees. God Bless and thankyou in advance. Trea

Answer:
Hello treay,

A stream of words came through, so I gotta give ‘em exactly as I got ‘em…

• “Chakras & Kundalini”
• “Opening to Channel”
• and “The Origin of Psychic Knowledge and Prediction”.

Hope this helps, and good luck!

Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise.”

From: DY, Submitted 4/24/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Question (complete): Why do I have feelings or feel attracted to another guy when i’m married and have two children?

Answer:
Dear DY,

First of all, being attracted to someone is not cause for concern, you’re human.

The larger issue here is – you’re unhappy in your marriage. If you weren’t, your attraction to someone else would not be an issue for you. Take care of your issues at home, love…. or don’t… whatever floats your boat, sails your ship or sinks your submarine (where did this nautical theme come from??).

Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise.”

From: diane, Submitted 4/23/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Dear diane,

Not happenin’.

Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise.”

From: rosita7, Submitted 4/11/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Question (complete): is it a good idea to start looking for someone else or will my husband ever come back ?

Answer:
rosita7,

Look for someone else, hon.

I know you think you want him back, but you don’t NEED him back in your life. He’s toxic.

Fly away little bird… seek more comely shores…

Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise.”

From: bugged out, Submitted 4/7/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Question (complete): A couple of weeks ago, I was taking a bath and looked over in the mirror and saw a face of a person with dark hair. Can you tell me who it was or was I seeing things. It really bugged me out. I have also had toys going off and my daughter Aryel supposedly saw the faucet turn back on after she turned it off. Did that really happen and who was it? Thank you very much.

Answer:
Hello BuggedOut,

Yes it all really happened, but I don’t know who it is. Next time something happens…ask. You and your daughter are safe, however.

Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise.”

From: shorty, Submitted 3/6/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Question (complete):  Okay, I was with a man for 6 1/2 months and we have had our ups and downs escepially in our beginning, I was told that he was cheating on me, but my heart told me “people were jealous and didn’t want us together” so I ignored the sitituation but eventually it caught up to me and found out that he was. But then he told me that he will never do it again. So we tried it again, and then I found out when we broke up 3 days later he was dating another girl but was still trying to work things out with me. He told me a day after my birthday that he was with her and wanted me to play along with him. Then a week later, he told me he was no longer with her. So we started dating again and tonight on March 6, 2008, I found out he was still talking to her, so I broke up with him. Would these rumors telling me a lie, and would this girl (that he was seeing)lying to me to? I just want to know if I am better off without him or He would get better and We would eventually get better? I just want to know his life, and how he is as a person?

Answer:
Shorty,

Are you freaking serious? You’ve been with this asshole for six and a half months, he’s caused you all this pain, he’s lied like a cheap rug and you’re seriously asking me if ~ A. Someone ELSE would lie to you about him B. Would you would be better off without him C. Is he going to ‘get better,’ and D. How is he as a person?

uhhhh….He SUCKS. He’s a jerk. He’s a liar. He’s a cheater. He’s a user.

And you…I’m not even gonna get started on you and what your issues are…

If you stay with this guy, you’ll be getting what you deserve for asking these ridiculous questions.

Get a Clue!
Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise”

From: Lynx, Submitted 3/1/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Hi Lynx,

First you must KNOW yourself, then you must BE yourself, in order to find the kind of love you are seeking. You’re doing it backwards.

Blessings,
Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise”

From: sal, Submitted 2/20/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Hello Sal,

I will answer your question with a question…

What did you not do right the first time? Whatever it is, here’s your second chance. Do the best you can to get it right. “Right” is loving and looking after you, then loving and looking after others.

Consider yourself lucky…

Blessings,
Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise”

From: Loveless, Submitted 2/19/08

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Question (continued): Will I ever find a lover who is kind and respectful to me? I’m a decent person and I treat people the best I can. My latest relationship disaster was this: I was, until last year, involved with a guy who I was with for two years, who said he loved me. Early last year (Jan 07) he would up meeting up with some old friends from School, one of them a younger girl. I quickly became aware that he had feelings for this person, although he constantly & consistantly denied that he did. We broke up shortly after, for that, and other reasons – mostly him being disresepectful towards me. We hadn’t spoken in a year, until recently. We got back in touch and he made it seem like he was interested in seeing me again, but just last night I spoke with him on the phone and he dropped an emotional “H” bomb on me. He told me that he only started to have feelings for me just when I broke up with him (March 07)although we had been dating for over two years!! Then he tells me he is deeply in love with this girl, that he thinks she is his soul mate and he is practically “obsessed” (his words) with her. Needless to say I was completely devastated!! He said she gives him hot and cold signals and asks if he treated me the way he treats her (Im not exactly sure how he treats her – so Im unsure as to what that question meant) I don’t feel that I deserved this kind of treatment – not during the relationship, nor how he finally told me he really actually had feelings for this other girl. Can I move on? Can I be Happy? Is there someone else for me soon? I’m completely heartbroken and need some hope to carry on. Thank you kindly in advance for your guidance.

Answer:
Hello Loveless,

The question isn’t can you move on…the question is WILL you move on? It’s a choice just like everything else in life and I can’t answer that for you. I hope you will, but it’s too early to tell.

You’ve got some work to do before you can attract real love into your life. You must access the dynamics of past relationships and figure out what patterns you have been repeating ad nauseum. We all do it, few of us recognize it, and we are doomed to repeat it if we don’t take an honest inventory of where we have been.

I know you feel like you have been a victim in all this, and I realize you have not been treated in the proper fashion by someone who claimed to care about you. The truth is, you have responsibility in this too. Tell you what, begin your delving into the past with this here relationship. Figure out what went wrong and how you played a part in your own disaster, claim it and compare it to the relationship before that and the relationship before that. I promise you, a pattern will emerge. Once it is discovered, swear to heaven or hell that you’ll do things differently next time. Oh, and be happy.

Best of Wishes to you,
Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise”

From: karishma, Submitted 2/19/08

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Question (continued): TO Abbey Arachnid HELLO .I WOULD TO KNOW ABOUT THE MAN IN MY LIFE . IAM MARRIED AND HAS BABY GIRL . I WOULD TO FIND OUT IF HE IS CHEATING ON ME .SHOULD I STAY OR LEAVE .

Answer:
Karishma,

Frankly, I can’t pick up anything on your husband. It’s like there’s no soul vibration there, like he’s a non-entity.

From you, I feel like you are just not getting at all what you deserve from your relationship. Talk to your husband about this. If he is not open to changing your marriage for the better then make a plan to leave and set it into motion in May.

As far as ‘Is he cheating?’ I don’t know. You will have to trust your own intuition on that one.

Many Blessings,
Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise”

From: Byrd23, Submitted 2/18/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Hello Byrd23,

You may not think so, but these two questions (and their answers) are indelibly linked to eachother and keep you caught in a vicious cycle. Please see if the following does not describe your love life thus far, my friend:

Your mother meddles in your relationships making you feel inadequate (cause if you can’t please your mom, how could you ever expect to please any other woman, right?), you project that feeling onto the relationship you’re in and because of this, the union ends. Then your mother takes that as a sign she should stick her nose even further into your love life. I would say this has happened at least 3 times in the past, and it is happening again in your current relationship. Eventually this relationship will be destroyed because of your lack of faith in yourself as a man, that is if you don’t put a stop to it right now. And Byrd, that ain’t-a gonna be easy. You’re afraid of your mom. Afraid of disappointing her and so sick and tired of listening to her direct and indirect jabs at your self-esteem. You’re going to have to face and conquer that fear if you’re to have a healthy, happy relationship, love.

Listen…I have no doubt that your mom loves you and vice versa. However, she’s got lots o’ issues going on here: she’s controlling, she’s miserable and wants you to be miserable too, she doesn’t want to ‘lose’ you, and I also feel an underlying resentment towards men in general probably from past hurts. And, lucky you, you get to bear the brunt of that wrath. I’m sorry for that, Byrd…truly sorry.

Let me give you a plan of action. This is what my Guides recommend and what I would do if I were in your situation:

1. Tell mom, in no uncertain terms, to butt out. Be prepared for this to cause a hellish reaction. She may scream and cry. She may disown you. She may say she’s gonna stick her head in the oven. Whatever the reaction is, I will bet you dollars to donuts, it’s going to be manipulative. Stay strong for as long as is needed. Don’t even let her get the tiniest toe in the door of trying to run your love life, not ever again, Byrd. If you back down after doing this….THIS SITUATION WILL NEVER END. Believe it or not, staying strong in this will build your self-esteem and this will improve your relationship.

2. Talk to your girlfriend. Real, honest, lay it on the line talk. Tell her you have told your mom to stay out of your business. Tell her you feel inadequate and why. She will be open to this. It takes the strongest of men to admit their vulnerabilities. Keep these lines of communication open and you will feel better and better about the relationship and about yourself.

3. Get personal counseling. Get relationship counseling. Make healing your top priority. Do it for you.

Byrd, I wish you so much luck with this. I apologize for giving you such a long-winded answer to a very short inquiry, but sometimes the floodgates just open and there ya go! =D

Please let me know how things go, ok?

Wishing you peace and love,

Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise”

From: H.T., submitted 2/18/08

Answer from Abbey Arachnid
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Question (continued): Hello fellow bitches, I have posted a few times earlier, and I never had a response. I am a faithful reader of your site. Can you please tell me where my relationship is headed with this man? We met back in September and seemed to slowly be forming a relationship when BAM he became distant. He said it was because of law school. He told me he would call me again, but 6 weeks have past and no contact. Will he ever contact me again? What will become of us?

Answer:
Hello H.T.

Yes you will hear from him again, before the end of February. I feel like it is electronic (email, voicemail, etc) rather than by phone.

I also feel the two of you are at completely different places in your lives. This is just not the right timing for this romance. Maybe later, but not now…

Wishing you joy,
Abbey ^^O^^

“Animals are Angels in disguise”